WA ODE HASMINA

Wa Ode Hasmina ( 10 231 007 )

Hay guys ...... of course, each other person knew  if loving sometimes brought happiness and sadness but although that,  I didn’t know why ? nothing the people stopped trying  it,,,, especially me. The last time, I had a love experince that difficult to forget, but,,,,,, many lessons that I took from it. You could read my love story and other experience about live and I hoped you can took many lesson from my experience below :

·         When was the last time I told someone in person that I love them ?

Since I thought to stop loving  the someone again.  Suddenlly, love came to me with many questions. I had known to him with long time but first, I didn’t felt whatever because I just thought he was my friend and forever like that. He was a kind man but sometimes I hated him so much. Time passed very fastly so that,  he would be going to leave me without knowing, how was our felling ? before when he had  gone,  I didn’t feel anything but after few days,  like there was something lose from my live. I didn’t know what happenned with me,  maybe I had loved him or what ?  I tried to forget my felling a moment because I thought many things that I had to do. Few months later in the midnight,  he called me and this was very surprise for me  because he said to love me. Besides that, asked for me to be a  specially girl to him. I was happy but I could accept him althought I still loved him so much because I didn’t want, he broken hurt because my love had gone two weeks ago ( break ). After he had came back in Baubau,  he came to meet in my home but I didn’t stay at home.  I didn’t know why ? after know,  he had been in Baubau, I was so happy so that, making me remember again my feeling. Thus about 3 weeks, I was brave to call him to ask how did his feeling with me ? and he said that he still loved me and me too but we were not together because our love was love must not to own until now.

·         When was the last time someone told me face to face that they loved me ?

Last time, When I was senior high school. I had one of boy friend in my class but,  because one of each thing. We decided to break althought still there was felling betwen us. About a year I didn’t know, why ? suddenly,  in my class there was strange something.  Actually, he was ready to say his feeling to me again that he still loved me. I was very surprise because I didn’t think he would do it in front of class and many students. So, she asked for me to accpect him again because he could foget me althrought he had tried.  Because our feeling still same thus, we were together again.

·          How do you express your love ?

I usually express my love with the matter gave care, loyal, and tried making him happy if closed me up. Besides that, I attempted  to do whatever I could because to see the person that I loved be happy I could felt that too.

33. Do you belive that there is only perfect marriage partner for everyone ?

Yes I belived it,  because the God had created someone with the patner to live together forever. Only how did they do the best for their partner because I was sure,  live was full problem moreover, when we had been merried but without problem you never known how to feel sweet life because the thing of beautiful when you could be competent to resist  it altought  a big problem came to you that the most  important, you could be sure all problems there was solution and always thingking was adult and positive to finish your problem  “ if there was first  to be sure there would be the end “ like the live,  when there was sad to be sure happiness would come fastly to you.  Making your partner was happy alhtought it was difficult because everything  needed a fight and  didn’t look for the perfect person but making  your partner to be  pefect because your love.

61. Do  you think it is posibble to live with no regrets ? Explain.

No, I don’t because live with no regrets like walked around without purposed. Life is choice that need our bravery to choose. Regrets is one of small thing which often happened on life but we can take many things to created experience and lesson that good from it. We regrest no matter we are quiet because of it  but, we try to found something that can give we motivation to be a better human  more. In fact, human is the place always make mistake  but, without regrets how we can learn to no repeat mistake before. So, my mind  the regrets important  on our live during that regretted can bring in positif thing. Besides that, the regrets can bring someone to think postiv and adult. Example,  I have been one of experience connected  with love. My experience with this thing not always walk good because many sickness that we found in it.  I always regrets and of course, in my mind just one of word  “why” and “why”  because this question many things make me to think for doing somethhing better. One of change my self to be human always think adult and to be experience as lesson in order that mistake no repeat again in my live althought first difficult but I always thing “ Why the other people can while I can’t “ this sentence always inspire me to be better. Live is once so do that better as long as you still live.