CaSe of 2010: CITRA IRNIATI NABA

DO YOU THINK IT IS POSSIBLE TO LIVE WITH NO REGRETS ? EXPLAIN

A regret ... something that can never be separated from human live. Even for someone who is selfish ever feel a regret too. Although he never care with the others people but if the mistake that he do cause he hurt and sad or adverse him, of course he will feel regret. Yes ,,, it happens to everyone all this time. So , if you ask me like that, I will answer that it is imposible if we live with no regrets. Why do I say like that ? because in every person’s life, including me, they never separated from any action which would make them regret it. At first, maybe they not realize, but I’m really sure if their actions are wrong, in the end the regret will come slowly. I have ever been experienced that before, most noticeable when my father was passed away, at the time that I have not had time to apologize directly to him. I am very regret because actually a week before he passed away, I had a lot of time together with him but it never occurred to me to say sorry for all the wrongs I have done. It cause I say there’s no people can live without regrets. The slightest mistake, if he felt what he have done is wrong, of course he will regret it. Because no body’s perfect in the world.

Actually, We can avoid the regrets with several ways, including do not rush in making decisions or doing something in our activity or when we are facing various problems. Imply it can prevent the occurrence of a regret. But I think regret is not always bad, because we can learn from that. If we have done a mistake and regret it, we will trying to improve and don’t make it more. So, don’t afraid with a regret because it will not kill you. .^_^.

DO YOU BELIEVE THAT THERE IS ONLY ONE PERFECT MARRIAGE PARTNER FOR EVERYONE ?

Okay ... this time we move in another topik. That is LOVE AND MARRIAGE. Hmm ... This topic actually I have never experienced before, but I’ll try to explain this.^^

Do I believe that there is only one perfect merriage partner for everyone ?? I will answer, yes I believe it. Because for me, everyone including me must be careful in choosing a partner who will accompany us to the end of the age. We always want someone who is best for us and our family. We may not choose the wrong partner for it. And if we have founded someone who we loved, we will consider that he/she is our perfect partner. Especially when the person has become our partner life (husband/wife). Surely we would have felt had the perfect partner. Although our partner or ourself aren’t the perfect person but we will complement deficiency or excess of each. If we always do that, I believe we can feel have had a perfect partner in our life. And we must believe that The God will give the best partner for us. Maybe we might be difficult to be a perfect person, but we always have the oppurtunity to always give best something for our partner and make him/her happy. Because an Happiness is start of a Perfection.

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU TOLD SOMEONE IN PERSON THAT YOU LOVED THEM ? WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME SOMEONE TOLD YOU FACE TO FACE THAT THEY LOVED YOU ? HOW DO YOU EXPRESS YOUR LOVE ?

At this time, we will talk about LOVE. Hmm...so far it is an interest topic ^^. Every people will be happy if talking about LOVE, including me. We can share our feel that relate with LOVE here. Especially about someone special in our life. Hehehe ...^^

Ok...now I will explain about that topic. If we talk about LOVE, it means we will talk about feeling. And that feeling which we called LOVE is universal. Not only LOVE for someone special, but also for the people in around us like our family, our friend, and all of the people in the world.

For the first question, when was the last time you told someone in person that you loved them ??? Hmm...actually I don’t have bravery to told someone that I loved him if he isn’t become my boyfriend. I prefer to bury those feelings rather than express it. I ever done it when I was a student in junior high school. I loved someone but I didn’t to express it until I was a student in senior high school. I buried that feelings about 4 years. Hehehe ... I thought it was so long. But it’s me, who never brave express my feeling to someone who I love before he become my boyfriend. But if he is my boyfriend, I will say “I LOVE YOU” every time, it to prove that I really love him.^^

Next .. The second question. When was the last time someone told you face to face that they loved you ??? I still confuse to answer this question. Because if that said “I LOVE YOU” for me is someone who has become my boyfriend, I would answered 3 months ago. He said loved me face to fece when he has become my boyfriend. But, if someone who not become my boyfriend who said loved me face to face, I answered 7 months ago. He told me if he loved me and he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend or not. And at that time, I answered “Yes...I wanted^^”. Hehehehe ... actually, I am very shy tell it, but it just one of part from my life story.

Ok ... the last question. How do you express your love ??? Everyone has different ways to express their love. Give more attention, understanding, always say LOVE everytime and many more. But for me, I express my love for my someone special with some ways, there are :

ü Always present in his life. I mean if he need me, I try to always be there when he needed me. When he is sad or happy. Although we were be in the different place, I want to always there in beside him to keep make he’s happy.

ü Give more attention and understanding. One of my affection to my boyfriend that is by giving more attention and understanding. Because with it he could feel that he is someone important in my life.

ü Give more confidence. I do that to make him be responsible for what he does. And he can safe our relation with his characteristic (responsibility).

ü Faithfulness. I will always faithful with him that he believed that I really love him.

by : CITRA IRNIATI NABA