WA ODE HASMITA

Wa Ode Hasmita

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If god will grant you any one request, what would you want it to be?

Oh actually I have many wishes to god but if only given one request I would like to be a good person because if I become a good person I will be accepted easily in anywhere I be. And if I become a good person I would be loved by every one and every one will be happy for me. Then I can make my parents proud for me that they had a good kid that they had raised. And that is my dream.

When was the last time you said that you are sorry to someone else in person? How difficult is it for you to say that you are sorry?

Actually  I can not remember the last time I said I am sorry to someone in person, but as I remember was the last month when I forgot to pay my pulsa payment to my friend who sold pulsa. I just remembered when I saw her photo and I was reminded that I still got credit payment of pulsa that I have not pay yet. So I came to her house and paid my debt and I said I am sorry thet I had late to pay my debt.

How difficult is it for you to say that you are sorry?

In my opinion it is not really difficult because if we say that sorry from inside heart it will be easy to say that we are sorry.

Do you think it is possible for someone to live with no regrets?

It is impossible I think, because if we live with no regrets we live like vegetable without salt. We have to living it up or live, what I mean is we are human being so if we don’t have that regret feeling then we are NOT the human being.

Also if we have that regret will fulfill one  term in becoming a solid human because we will learn experience that we had been through about not to repeat the same mistake ever in the future.
 

77. Under what circumstances do you feel most lonely? Least lonely? Why?

Under what circumstances do you feel most lonely?

I feel most lonely when I am alone in my flat, no one comes to visit me, and if my boyfriend don’t reply my text. And at that time I’d love to share my problems and also just like when we all gathered all around but it feels like we are just thinking about our self.

I feel least lonely when I gather with my friends especially one village so that we can share with our own language and one idea to keep us from differences.

Why? Because togetherness is important in our life, without any one else we are nothing. And we will not be able to life without other people because as we know that human is a social being.

When was the last time you told someone in person that you loved them? When the last time was someone told you face to face that they loved you? How do you express your love?

The last time I told some one in person that I love them was couple months ago when I saw a man and suddenly strange feeling occurred, I wondered what kind of feeling this was but my friend said that it was a love feeling, so I came to his house and directly said that I loved him.

The last time someone told me in person that they loved me was occurred two weeks ago when I was sitting in my garden of flat then the man from my next door sat next to me and said that he loved me, but I rejected that man and I said that I already had a boyfriend.

I express my love usually by giving extra attention but not really excess.

Do you believe that there is only one perfect marriage partner for everyone?

Actually I believe that but if we find the case many marriage are broken mostly because they have not found a perfect partner yet.  But during the dating if we already known our partner and ready to accept every shortage in their self we should be able to accept that and try to cover it with our self.

How to build up my self –confident

Actually it is a difficult thing for me at the first time to become brave especially if I have to face certain problem and suddenly my nervous come but I can not control it. To avoid that I usually prepare myself first before doing something that will provoke my nervous.

There is a one time I can not control my nervous and suddenly I feel dizzy and light headed, I almost got fainted that day. My friends help me out by giving spirit and telling me a spirit wordsand that made my self confident get back as it’s began.

So with better preparation and efficient preparation I can do something better and my self confident can be built up little by little.

If you knew that tomorrow will be the last full day of life, how would you spend the day?

If I knew that tomorrow would be the last full day of life, first I would like to say sorry to my parents because I realized that I had done many mistakes to them. Second I want to spend my time with the people whom I love and to the people whom loved me as well.

Also I want to pray to Allah so that my sins will all be forgiven and I can enter the heaven for eternity, where the good things are in heaven and everything is bright and all available.

HARTUTIANA

NAME   : HARTUTIANA
CLASS  : A
NPM     : 10231029

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU SAID I'M SORRY TO ANOTHER PERSON ???

HOW DIFFICULT IS IT FOR YOU TO SAY YOU'RE SORRY ???

    Two weeks ago, I quarrel with my boyfriend. We quarrel because there is a problem between us. That is the last time I said my sorry to him. It is because of the problem that I think my relation with him not good more. At the time, I said to him, I'm sorry, our relation is enough from here, you and me END !!!!!

    I felt very difficult to said it. Although I decided to ending my meration with him but I felt very difficult to said that, because I still love to him, but I had to say it. He didn't want to sput up with me but I had decided to left him and I would not change my decision.

    Like that the last time I said my sorry to another person and he is my boyfriend self.

ALANSYAH

Nama    : Alansyah

Class      : A

No.reg  : 10 231 025

Tugas    : Speaking

 

1.the last time I told someone in person that I love them was about eight month ago.i told her cause I ready loved her so much cause she was so cute,funy and hospitality.there isn’t people told me that they loved me in face to face,I express love by send romantic text,cause I think this is the easy way to express love.

 

2.i don’t believe cause not all the perfect patner have perfect marriage because there are unperfect patner but they have perfect marriage.

 

3.we can life without regrets cause all the people ever mate some mistake in their lives and they didn’t realize it till a few happen in their live and they’ll regret what happened in their live.

 

4.I feel lonely when I broke up with my girl friend. Because she is mean everything to me and I so love her more that ever one before. We always together, and share each other. When she leaved me. I feel half my soul gone. I feel lonely in every where and every time.(hal 77)

 

5.last time I said I’m sorry was I realized that I had made big mistake to my girl friend.it was difficult to me to say I’m sorry because I feel that it was her mistake and make me so angry with her.but I realized that it is useless to keep angry.so I was sorry before her.

 

6.if god give me one wish,I would like to ask god to return the time to the past cause there were lost thing I haven’t done yet also because there were lots of fun and joy in my life.

 

7.the expression on my face can actually encourage my brain to register certain emotions.so by looking in the mirror and smiling every day,I night feel happier with my self and more confident in the long run.

NOVA ELZA

Name                         : Nova Elza

Class                          :  A

Reg. number            :  10-231-014

Subject                      :  SPEAKING III

 

77. I feel lonely when they are alone at home, when no friends near me. And most make me feel lonely when away with the family, father, mother, and my brothers. I was very sad when away from them. I really miss the people I love. Usually a lot of things with them, but now if I feel they missed I can only hear their voices over the phone, and that it could treat the sense of missed them. Usually I also invited my friends to go have fun on the beach just missed relieve families in our village.

131. If God gives me one request. I would ask to be a rich woman. Can buy anything. Buy a car, buy a mansion, if necessary, buy an airplane. If I were a rich woman I would build a mosque, repairing roads, helping people who are difficult, I will repair the homes of the poor. If I had money I would invite all my family especially the parents to go to Mecca. I will take them around the world, maybe not just families who would I invite all citizens but also the village home. Then I will make the welfare of citizens of my village and my village to be even better.


74. Time I fight with my sister. The problem is my mother sent money and left it with my sister. Money is money that I deliberately message. I asked my mother why my money never sent a message too. My mom says that money has been sent. However, younger women are not also give it to me. I was angry with him and he apologized because he had completely forgotten. He immediately gave the money and given to me. We forgive each other and I think it is not difficult to apologize if we are guilty.

23. Two weeks ago I took my best friend. He will leave for Jakarta, not to go to school but there he would work to pay for her younger siblings who attend school. I encourage him and also do not forget me because I'm happy to share with him.

33. No marriage is perfect for everyone, but there is a near-perfect. Every wedding couple must have a deficiency. Prior to the wedding, people who plan to marry always getting trials. After marriage there is always a problem in married couples. Sometimes there is not married until a year old marriage eventually split up as well. There also remain faithful until death.

61. It is impossible, because every person's life must always be a regret. And contrition always come later after we do that we should not do. Everyone has faults, with an error then the regret will come. For example, we are very sorry when we make our parents mad, sorry for any purchase of goods unnecessary, sorry for going out, and many other forms of regret. So we need to think wisely and think before acting in order to avoid unnecessary regrets.............

NIRMAWATI

Name        : NIRMAWATI
Reg Number    : 10-231-006
Class        : A
Subject    : SPEAKING III


What do you do when you feel there is a distance growing between you and good friend?

        When I feel there is a distance growing between me and my friend, I will try to approach it and I will forgive if I have  false with her. Then I ask actually there is problem what so her restrains from me. If she has a problem I will make abode to comfort it that our comradeship makes abode awake.


When was the last time to ask someone to forgive yuo? How did he or she respond?

        The last time to ask some one to forgive me,when I quarrel with my husband a last month, that quarrel happening because problem whisch inessential. My husband responds with passes over me and also forgive on me.


When was the last time you told someone in person that you loved them? When was the last time someone told you face to face that they loved you? How do you express your love?

        The last time I told someone in person that me loved them, when I get married and not at approve by my husband family but I say on my husband despit of my dislike I make an abode to loved them because they have are part of my life. But after one year we get married and my husband family pregnancy I ask out I gaze to show face  to face and they say its loved me and my husband. My express they loved me, when they are love and hugs me I will be happy and wont forget that pround instance.


Do you believe that there is only one perfect marriage partner for everyone?

        Yes, I do. I believe that there is only perfect marriage partner for everyone because in my life, I just love my husband and I want to go through my life with him forever, and I will never release him come what may.


Do you think it is possible to live with no regrets? Explain?

        No, I don't. Because I think in my life, I alaways make many guilty so that I always regret after I get it. I am a human so that it impossible for me if I don't  regrets as long as I live. For instance, when I quarrel with my husband, always feel that I;m selfish and I realize that I have been make some mistake and regret it.

WA ODE MADIANA

WA ODE MADIANA

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149.If tomorrow you were given a choice-all expenses paid between spending a month helping feed and can for the starving in Ethiopia or a month relaxing on an island in the South Pacific, which would you choose? Why?

Answer:

Yes Allah if tomorrow last day of me request to straight my road street and isn’t it straight on me, yes Allah is very expect that to ridhoan, if me go l am only notice is same of my family, isn’t it my so that l calm beach in nature there.

-How to build up yourself confident?

Answer:

L develop my elf learning as maximum so that my knowledge increase for the shake of obtaining good succesfulness. Developing development of self of vital important in our self.

LANDILI

Name : landili

Class A

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When was the last time you said that you are sorry to someone else in person? How difficult is it for you to say that you are sorry?

The last time I said sorry to someone is one month ago to my girlfriend, she asked me to pick her but I am too late because I had to do something important which is I had to join the mid exam, so he was angry, I came to her home and I said “honey, I am sorry”

It is very difficult to say that you are sorry because we have to say that direct to the opposite person face to face and heart to heart.

 

How to build up my self –confident

I build up my confident usually by doing warm up before doing something that will make me feel nervous, so every time I have to speak especially do something such as coming in front of class I always make small movement of my body.

But sometimes I can not keep my self confident only by doing so, sometimes I scratch the back of my head when I am in front of class, that will also make me ease and more relax in dealing with many people.

If you knew that tomorrow will be the last full day of life, how would you spend the day?

Firstly I would like to apologize to my parents especially my mom because without her effort I can not be able to study here in Unidayan.

And I would like to apologize to my friends for if I had ever hurt their feeling or emotion or physically. I would like to say thank you for all my teacher and lecturers about the condition and circumstances if I ever make them mad or anything else.

YASRIN FATMA

How To Build Up Self Confident

I have some steps and then how to build up self confident

1.    Before we are open to speak don’t forget to say azubillah himmina syaitho nirrajim the fuction is lost of feeling nervous

2.     Before begin to speak in front of all people, sometimes we lost the self confident, so we must careful and consider the words before our to say.

3.    You must remamber whole your family and I think this making more self confident

If You Knew That Tomorrow Would Be The Last Full Day Of Life,

How Would You Spend The Day?

If this to be the last full day of my life, I will looking for my girl friend because I will forgiveness to her, and I said to her that is the last time to meet her because tomorrow I will leave you and I will go forever. My girl friend is sad, cry, and she said to me, why do you leave me? Eventually, I always love you. Why do you do it? Before I say to her I’m so sorry because this after times. Sorry maybe tomorrow I will go forever.

That is my argument, I think is enaugh........wait the eddition second...... I still think about it......,,,

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