WA ODE HASMITA

Wa Ode Hasmita

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If god will grant you any one request, what would you want it to be?

Oh actually I have many wishes to god but if only given one request I would like to be a good person because if I become a good person I will be accepted easily in anywhere I be. And if I become a good person I would be loved by every one and every one will be happy for me. Then I can make my parents proud for me that they had a good kid that they had raised. And that is my dream.

When was the last time you said that you are sorry to someone else in person? How difficult is it for you to say that you are sorry?

Actually  I can not remember the last time I said I am sorry to someone in person, but as I remember was the last month when I forgot to pay my pulsa payment to my friend who sold pulsa. I just remembered when I saw her photo and I was reminded that I still got credit payment of pulsa that I have not pay yet. So I came to her house and paid my debt and I said I am sorry thet I had late to pay my debt.

How difficult is it for you to say that you are sorry?

In my opinion it is not really difficult because if we say that sorry from inside heart it will be easy to say that we are sorry.

Do you think it is possible for someone to live with no regrets?

It is impossible I think, because if we live with no regrets we live like vegetable without salt. We have to living it up or live, what I mean is we are human being so if we don’t have that regret feeling then we are NOT the human being.

Also if we have that regret will fulfill one  term in becoming a solid human because we will learn experience that we had been through about not to repeat the same mistake ever in the future.
 

77. Under what circumstances do you feel most lonely? Least lonely? Why?

Under what circumstances do you feel most lonely?

I feel most lonely when I am alone in my flat, no one comes to visit me, and if my boyfriend don’t reply my text. And at that time I’d love to share my problems and also just like when we all gathered all around but it feels like we are just thinking about our self.

I feel least lonely when I gather with my friends especially one village so that we can share with our own language and one idea to keep us from differences.

Why? Because togetherness is important in our life, without any one else we are nothing. And we will not be able to life without other people because as we know that human is a social being.

When was the last time you told someone in person that you loved them? When the last time was someone told you face to face that they loved you? How do you express your love?

The last time I told some one in person that I love them was couple months ago when I saw a man and suddenly strange feeling occurred, I wondered what kind of feeling this was but my friend said that it was a love feeling, so I came to his house and directly said that I loved him.

The last time someone told me in person that they loved me was occurred two weeks ago when I was sitting in my garden of flat then the man from my next door sat next to me and said that he loved me, but I rejected that man and I said that I already had a boyfriend.

I express my love usually by giving extra attention but not really excess.

Do you believe that there is only one perfect marriage partner for everyone?

Actually I believe that but if we find the case many marriage are broken mostly because they have not found a perfect partner yet.  But during the dating if we already known our partner and ready to accept every shortage in their self we should be able to accept that and try to cover it with our self.

How to build up my self –confident

Actually it is a difficult thing for me at the first time to become brave especially if I have to face certain problem and suddenly my nervous come but I can not control it. To avoid that I usually prepare myself first before doing something that will provoke my nervous.

There is a one time I can not control my nervous and suddenly I feel dizzy and light headed, I almost got fainted that day. My friends help me out by giving spirit and telling me a spirit wordsand that made my self confident get back as it’s began.

So with better preparation and efficient preparation I can do something better and my self confident can be built up little by little.

If you knew that tomorrow will be the last full day of life, how would you spend the day?

If I knew that tomorrow would be the last full day of life, first I would like to say sorry to my parents because I realized that I had done many mistakes to them. Second I want to spend my time with the people whom I love and to the people whom loved me as well.

Also I want to pray to Allah so that my sins will all be forgiven and I can enter the heaven for eternity, where the good things are in heaven and everything is bright and all available.