CITRA IRNIATI NABA

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU SAID ‘I`M SORRY’ TO ANOTHER PERSON ?

HOW DIFFICULT IS IT FOR YOU TO SAY YOU’RE SORRY ?

Oce guys ,,,, this week we will discuss a topic about SELF-IMAGE in this blog. I hope you can enjoy with my writing and can take a lesson from it.

And now, I will try to answer and explain the question like above.

First question. When was the last time you said “I’m sorry” to another person ? Hmm ... It’s an interesting question for me. Why ??? Honest, sometimes I very seldom to said “SORRY” to another person, even with my mother, sister or my brother. I will apologize to them if I have made a mistake that I think it’s very outrageous. But it can not make me dare to apologize in front of them. Usually I send message to them and say sorry by mobile phone when they are not in my house. Sometimes they replied my message and forgive all the mistake that I have done. After that, everything is back to normal like nothing happened in our house any quarrel. Yeah ... I think it’s so bad. But it was really happened in my life. 

This is very different if I was dealing with my best friend. I don’t know why ?? But this often occurs. For the example, yesterday, one of my best friends had an accident. Her father was in the hospital and until now has not returned to her house. I apologized to her because until this moment I have not found time to visit her father in the hospital. I was be sorry for this, but I was very busy since yesterday to do some activity. The good news is she always understood my situation. And it was very meaningful to me as a friend. I promised to visit her father this Friday with my another friend.

 And then the second question. How difficult is it for you to say you’re sorry ???

Yeah .. like I said before, I have not daring to say sorry especially in front of my family. This is one of the difficulties that I faced when I apologize to anyone. Beside that, the prestige factor is also one important factor when we want to apologize. If we are too high prestige, it is believed is that we will never say sorry, but if we really want to apologize, then we will not care about the prestige that we have.

For the last, I try to remind you if all of that I have done like I said before, it’s not good especially when I said sorry to my family by mobile phone. It’s not polite or respectful. And then apologize is not bad something but with this we can keep our relationship with every people in around us. 

May not be easy to obtain forgiveness from someone, but if we do it with sincerity, I believe they can forgive us. And don’t be afraid to give excuses, because it could be said that we will need it in the future from people who ever expect apology from us.

And remember, the word sorry is a magic word in this world. One word than can make even happiness of a person and for everybody in this world. ^_^

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