LIKA ADRIA SAKATITI

Name                  :        Lika Adria Sakatiti

Class                     :        A

Reg. Number      :        10 231 017

Subject                :        Speaking 3

When you told someone in person that you loved them?

Privately, i have never state my love directly to boys, but some said that in the world of love is legitimate if the girls have initiative to state their love first, they say that now is the age of emancipation. So if there is a girl who states her love first, doesn’t mean that she is not a bitch or slut. But, in my opinion if a girl state the love first to boys in less appropriate, that thing also can decrease girl’s self-esteem, because since long ago girls are destined to become those who pursued. While the boys become parties that pursue. The girls have power to decide while the boys have power to choose. So even though there is a girl who brave to state her love first that is only small fraction because in big fraction girls are only waiting.

When was the last time someone told you face to face that they loved you?

The last time someone makes love to me directly rather in March,at night in the event of salvation. The first he just talked about our school days, because when first we were very familiar, and not long after he asked me'' You already have a boyfriend or not?'' and I said'' i haven’t” and spontaneusly he said “You would not be my girlfriend?” Initially I was shocked and laughed, but he said'' I'm serious with you, I love you know that  with you from the first,’ and I said'' yes it used to be, the until now you still like me, I honestly feel for you it's just as friends only, Initially he was silent because he was mad at me, but after I explained he was not angry anymore and finally we just be friends.

How do you express your love?

Steps will I take to express my feelings are: give more attention, making him feel comfortable and calm when beside me, be kind and polite to him, and tried to make him always happy.

Do you believe that there is only perfect marriage patner for everyone?

I suppose in a perfect marriage does not exist on this earth. Our partner is not perfect, because there is no perfect human being, in a sense; our partner is not the person who can fulfill all of what we want. To hope for perfect partner is only going to make affection that has been tied when we sue our partner to be perfect then what we can see are few imperfectness upon our eyes . so that the perfection in a marriage is not available. It is only how the human undergo all of the imperfections in taht marriage to become a way to the perfection, example to build sakinah mawaddah and warrahmah family and make that marriage to last until the end of their life.

Do you think it is possible to live with no regrets?

Live with no regrets is very impossible, why do i say that ??? Because we live in this world there are always things we will regret. Maybe wrong in doing something, mistake in the way of speaking, mistake in doing something ETC. For instance regret because had done something evil, regret to hurt friend’s heart, regret to do stupid things,etc. But we should not get sink within regrets, just live your life the best as you can, and when the trial comes, make that as a springboard to become a better person for the good of the coming days